How Can I get my hair up without hair products?

I don't like having my hair all stiff. But I want my hair to like point up. My hair naturaly is down, and I don't like it, but I hate puting gel on because it makes my hair soo stiff. I have this wax but i don't want my hair like oily and wet either.

My hair is dark dark brown and thick. Is there a certain conditioner to use?

If this can't be done naturaly, can someone reccomend me a NATURAL hair product that won't damage my hair?

How Can I get my hair up without hair products?

Try skipping the conditioner and blow dry your hair upside down - that made my hair stand up on its own when I had short hair.